ONCE upon a time, long ago, the notion of joint families was the accepted norm. Live together, share the space, share the cost and live happily ever after.
But over-exposure across decades, to especially Indian and Pakistani television drama where domineering in-laws invariably led to some heavy conflict, and made the lives of everybody involved a messy business. It created a new, modern word – independence."
Every newly married couple, from that point, made it a prenuptial condition that they would live separately, for the good of everybody concerned.
But, then, of late, the original mother-hen, realising that with the children gone it would become very difficult to meet the inflated rates, taxes, geyser-repairs, body corporate levy and R30/kg jam tomatoes, on her own, suddenly turned the tables.
She…