On November8, theroller-coasterridethathasbeenElection2016willcometoanend. Andwhetheryou’vebeenavidlyfollowingthedailyhighsandlows, orjustskimmingyourfriends’ Facebookupdates, let’sallpromiseoneanotherrightnowthatwewill, infact, vote— yes,evenifyoudon’tlikethecandidates, evenifyou’restuckattheoffice, evenif, evenif.
Needapush? Turntopage36: Thereyou’llseeacaricatureofanearly-twentieth-centuryAmericansuffragette, whichgivesyoujustatasteofthemockeryafewbravewomenenduredtogetyouandmetherighttorolloureyesandstayh me.Someofthemwerethrowninjail; otherswereburnedwithcigarsduringprotests. Andwhy? BecauseasformerpresidentGroverClevelandmansplainedatthetime, women’svotingwouldupset“ anaturalequilibriumsonicelyadjusted…[ that]itcannotbedisturbedwithoutsocialconfusionandperil.”
Inotherwords: Thisrightdidnotcomeeasy. Andhowwelldoweexerciseit? Well, whilewomenvotemorethanmen, no onevotesasmuchasyoumightthink. Only59percentofwomenwenttothepollsinthelastpresidentialelection.
Yetevenwiththatturnout, whenyoungwomendovote, wecanswayelections( itwaswomenwhotippedthescalesforPresidentObamainswingstatesin2008and2012). Morethanayearago, Glamourlaunchedaprojecttoshowcasethevoices, andinterests, ofthispowerfulbloc. CalledThe51Million— forthe51millionwomenunder45eligibletovoteinthisyear’selections— theinitiativehaspartneredwithFacebooktoholdlunches, salons, andeventsalloverthecountry, encouragingwomentosharetheirviewswithotherswhomayormaynotagree. WeheardfromBerniebackerswhofeltrobbed, Clintonfansfuriousaboutthedoublestandardtheyfelttheircandidatefaced, Trumpsupporterswhowantedtotalksubstance, notsoundbites. Everywhere, there’sbeenonerule: Be honest.
Ihavesatatthesemealsandlistenedinaweaswomanafterwomanstoodupandsharedherfeelings— sometimesangry, sometimesteary, oftensurprising. ( InHollywoodandSanFrancisco, severaladmitted, it’shardtobetheGOPwomanintheroom.) Inoddedandlearnedfromtheirperspectives, sointhespiritofthatopenness, I’dliketosharemine. I’veworkedatGlamourthroughfourelectioncyclesnowandhaveneverbeforefeltmotivatedtoexpressmyprivatepreference foracandidate; I’mproudthatGlamoursupportswomenofallperspectivesandtakesseriouslythefactthatthemagazineis, asweputit, pro-womanbutmultipartisan. Ihavehad( andtreasured) theprivilegeofinterviewingRepublicanandDemocratleadersalike: PresidentGeorgeW. Bushin2007, PresidentBarack Obama in 2012. The idea of expressing public support for a candidate would never have occurred to me in 2004, 2008, or 2012. It may never seem appropriate again.
But this is no ordinary race. It used to be said that journalists should embrace “the view from nowhere”—a personalityless perspective that keeps you biting…